Love and friendship. Love and friendship is the most important thing to me. You can't go through life without that person who is not only your best friend but your greatest love too. Everyone needs that one person who can help you through all your problems and toughest days as well as be there to celebrate the good times. Without a love and friendship like this I believe life can seem so meaningless and dull, I suppose I feel this way because i cannot imagine life without my love and best friend, Jetlir. This person is the person you can explore the world with, stay up all night with, and love every moment of life with them. My best friend and true love (right) has been there for me through almost every situation imaginable. Jetlir is the type of guy you can tell anything to and he will be there to listen. He won't tell you what you want to hear however and yet thats why i love him. He will tell you the cold hearted truth of everything. He's there to pick me up when I'm down and he's there when everything in my life is going great. He is the type of best friend and lover everyone should try to find. Thus this type of relationship is the most important to me, because quite frankly I could not possible imagine a life without him, thus not only making him something important to me, but the most important to me.
What most people would be surprised to know about me would be that I love getting dressed up! Yes i wear basketball shorts all the time but thats only because I love my sleep more than anything so throwing on basketball shorts and zombie walking to my first class is so much easier than getting dressed in the mornings. I love to wear pretty shorts and a dressy shirt with my toes done and a bunch of bracelets. i love getting my hair done and getting all dolled up. But seriously guys this is college! who the hell am i trying to impress at 8 in the morning? I'm here to learn and get the heck out as quickly as possible.
Getting dressed up gives me a good feeling inside. If you look good you feel good. Most of you who think they know me i bet didn't know this. My favorite word is Zemer. Zemer means "heart" or "love" in Albanian.
Zemer is my favorite word because in Albania we use it to describe not only your heart but also your love towards someone. Unlike in the english definition of being a piece of your body we use it to also in place of someones name. Thats my zemra. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FdfD7q-BhUY In this song by Noizy, he explains his "zemer" His beautiful heart he repeats over. His heart is the sun the sky and without her he feels like the dirt we walk on day to day. Zemer is my favorite word. I love the Albanian language. One of the first words along with mom and dad you learn is zemer. 90% of the time you'll be called Zemer instead of your name as a child. It is a beautiful thing. If i could spend one full day the way I'd like to I would be cuddled up next to my best friend. It could rain, thunder, snow, hurricane, whatever. It could do all that and i would still mange to have the best day ever because i get to relax and spend the day with the one person who has made my life full of joyous fun. If this was the only free day i ever got i would without hesitation spend it doing absolutely nothing with Jetlir. One full day to spend however i like and i choose to spend it doing nothing productive or crazy fun. You probably think I'm a little crazy for this but when you have a really good friend like i do, its always a great time being in the presence of that person. All the joy you get going to the beach or going out parting or whatever it is you do for entertainment and fun i can do all of it by spending the day laying down in bed talking to him. 3 years and counting together and i still can't get enough of this guy. I would without hesitation spend my one free day with him doing NOTHING!! It sounds like the perfect day to me! |